You would need to have the original iTunes Library.itl file. That is where all your ratings, date added, playlists, skips and plays are stored.
If you had it, you should be able to delete your current iTunes Library.itl file from the iTunes folder and restore the old one to the iTunes folder, start iTunes and you would have everything back.
The XML import process you went through is a method used to rebuild a library if you lose your iTunes Library.itl file. As you can see it does not have all the data.
You may have a pseudo-recent backup of the iTunes Library.itl file in the iTunes\Previous iTunes Libraries folder. You'll see they have dates on them based on the date you upgraded iTunes. The newest one should be fairly close to the last good iTunes Library.itl file. You can copy the iTunes Library <date>.itl file to the iTunes directory, delete the iTunes Library.itl file, then rename the iTunes Library <date>.itl file to iTunes Library.itl and then start iTunes to see that version of your library.
Any changes you made since that date will need to be repeated.
So if you bought or imported music between that date and now, you will have to import it through the File->Add File to Library and locate the file in the iTunes\iTunes Media\<Artist>\<Album>\<song>.<ext> structure.
If you changed a playlist, you'll have to do it again.
If you rated a song, you'll have to do it again.
That might be better than starting over.
If there are people out there that want to avoid Windows 10, stay on Windows 7 for example, there is a simple utility called
Never10 to block GWX, turn off the GWX popups and GWX will uninstall itself after using it.
I did a manual method to block GWX (took ownership of the GWX directory, emptied it, then set the permissions to DENY access to Trusted Installer, and System) and I decided to try this utility. I can see that one of the GWX tasks now no longer runs because of the registry setting the utility sets instead of the usual "system can not find the file specified" error (because I erased all the GWX files).